The idea of gentle dominance has become very popular in recent years due to the work of avian behaviorists. However, the phrase has evolved over the years and can mean different things to different people. Basically, gentle dominance means that you assert you are head of the flock through persuasion and positive interaction, never frightening, intimidating, or physically punishing the lovebirds. You can be in charge of your flock, which can be even a single lovebird, only if the flock trusts you. Consistent, positive interaction creates the greatest bonds of trust.